Now that we have learnt about the Prophet Adam and the Shaytan, let’s now talk about Prophet Adam and the Shaytan.
Question: Have any of you heard the phrase: إنما الأعمال بالنية (innamal ’amaalu bi-niyyaat)? Does anyone know what it means?
It means that actions are judged by their intentions.
Question: What does it mean to intend something? Do you need to say your intention out loud?
An intention is something that you feel internally – it is the ‘why’ behind your actions.
Question: Do you think we always make intentions behind the things we do?
If we really tried to make an intention behind every small thing, it would probably cause us some frustration. Most of our actions are done out of habit anyway; like making our beds, brushing our teeth, and making our meals. But, what if we started to be more intentional with the way we operated? What good do you think could come out of it?
Maybe we wouldn’t be so quick to lose our temper. Maybe we could get even more hasanat (reward) for transforming our ordinary chores into extraordinary acts of worship!
One day, Imam ash-Shafi’, a great scholar of Islam -may Allah be pleased with him-, had some students over at his house when they heard someone knock on the door. One of his students went to answer the door, and Imam ash-Shafi’ stopped him and asked him what he was doing.
“I’m going to answer the door,” the student replied.
Imam ash-Shafi’ said, “Before you answer the door, make the intention that if it is a poor person seeking help, you will give them charity. And if it is a guest, that you will host them.”
Something as simple as answering the door became a way to get lots of rewards! How? Well, whenever we make a good intention, we get the reward for it even if we are unable to do it. That’s how generous Allah is, and Allah can reward a good intention up to 700 times!
I want each of you to pick something ordinary that you always do and make your intention behind it very big!
[A parent can give the example of washing the dishes: Intend to have a clean home, intend to make dhikr while washing the dishes, intend to have clean plates and utensils for us to be nourished and well fed, all so that we can be healthy and remember Allah and His blessings etc.]
Now, who wants to share?
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