Now that we have learnt about qalbun saleem, let’s talk about the life of this world.
Question: Do you know that there is an ayah in the Qur’an that takes us through all the stages of life and tells us what we find to be the most important aspect based on our age?
This ayah is found in the chapter named Al-Hadeed.
Question: Does anyone know what Hadeed means?
Yes! It means iron! The verse in Surah al-Hadeed starts by saying:
اعْلَمُوا أَنَّمَا الْحَيَاةُ الدُّنْيَا لَعِبٌ وَلَهْوٌ
“Know that the life of this world is play and amusement.”
Question: When you were really, really young, what was something that was important to you?
Yes, playing! You would use your imagination, play with your toys, and build legos. That is what لَعِبٌ la’bun means. Then you got a bit older and you wanted to hear stories and be entertained.
Question: Can you tell me in what other ways you’re entertained? (Examples can include watching TV, reading books, etc)
Yes! This is what is meant by لَهْوٌ l(ahwun). Then we get a bit older and our goals change. The ayah continues by saying, وَزِينَةٌ وَتَفَاخُرٌ بَيْنَكُمْ (wa zeenatun wa tafakhirun baynakum). All of a sudden, you become a tween and a teenager, and you really care about your looks. You want to dress in the nicest clothing and look beautiful. This is zeena.
Then you get even older and you enter college. You compete with your classmates and show off your knowledge and skills to impress future employees. This is tafaakhirun baynakum , i.e. boasting with one another.
Then what usually happens after college? Work, marriage, and children! The ayah continues by saying, وَتَكَاثُرٌ فِي الْأَمْوَالِ وَالْأَوْلَادِ (wa takathur fil amwaali wal-awlaad), i.e. and competition in increasing wealth and children.
As parents, we try to give you the best life and education, and we work hard to provide for you. But, we always have to remember that it won’t be permanent, right?
Question: We will be so happy, like farmers watching our seeds grow into beautiful plants, but what happens in the fall when it’s no longer sunny and becomes windy and cold?
Yes, the plants turn yellow. Remember that toy you used to love playing with as a really little kid? Is it as interesting to you anymore? Remember that TV show you could not stop watching? You even memorized all the lines in it. Do you remember the title? Are you interested in something else now?
This is the example of our whole life. Once we get something we once were so excited to have, we realize that after some time has passed, that it has “turned yellow” to us.
Question: What do you think that means?
Yes! It’s not as interesting as it once was. So knowing that this is going to happen, how can we make sure to not get distracted by the bright and shiny and stay focused on Allah ?
We’re in luck, because Allah gives us the answer! Allah says:
“سَابِقُوا إِلَىٰ مَغْفِرَةٍ مِّن رَّبِّكُمْ وَجَنَّةٍ
Race toward forgiveness from your Lord and Jannah!
Question: How do you think we can race towards Allah ?
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